Ask Bish – I’m ashamed of erections
A long question about feeling ashamed of erections, sexual desire and being male (which I’ve split into 3 sections).
Success and Failure (why they are both bad)
Thinking we are a failure isn’t great but it’s also not great to think we are a success either.
Really trying to have orgasms? BISH advice is to forget about orgasms and try to enjoy sex instead.
Why (Penis in Vagina) Sex Can Be ‘Meh’
I made a video about why penis in vagina sex can be a bit rubbish for many couples. Here’s a blog post to go with it in case you’re a reader not a watcher.
Should I Have Sex?
‘Should I have sex’ is for you to answer. Here’s some stuff to think about so that you are less likely to regret it if you do do it. (Remember, the law says you should be over 16.)
How To Use Condoms
Condoms aren’t always easy, but if you practice it can get easier.
Self Esteem – How Do You Feel About You?
The Bish Guide to Self-Esteem. How what we think and do can affect how we feel about ourselves.
Porn – An Educational Guide
Lots of young people learn about sex and relationships from porn: maybe because they don’t learn about it from anyone else. This is not for everyone, read with care. If in doubt don’t watch any porn till you are older.
The Clitoris and Vagina
A guide to the vulva. Where the clitoris and G spot is. How the vagina works. Why and how people squirt.
OMG Yes, No, Hmm: work out what kind of sex you like
People always tell you about the sex you *should* be having. This helps you work out what kind of sex you like and might *want* to have.
Sexual Health Services
Learn more about sexual health services for all ages in the UK. What they are, where they are, what they do and what going to a clinic is like.
Big Up You
Think about your best bits and the bits you’d like to have. Allow it. It’s not arrogant to be positive – so big up you yeah?
A guide to the Penis, Average Dick Size, Hard Ons, Foreskin, the Bell End and Frenulum.
Brief Guide to Relationships
A guide to relationships: friends with benefits, how to argue, trust, the romance thing, limits, fairness, independence and what to do if it ends.