This website is aimed at young people who are thinking about having sex and the content is suitable for over 14s (sometimes older). Here’s an idea of the kind of stuff you can find here (click links for more).
Ask Bish
Somewhere for you to ask questions about sex and relationships: not emergency questions though please. If you need help in a hurry in the UK click here
Blog
This is where you’ll see all the latest posts: including reviews, posts and rants from Team Bish, my team of young people keeping everything tight and relevant. Go Team Bish!
Safer Agreed Sex
If you want to learn about having safer agreed sex click here you can learn more about how to use condoms, learn more about STIs and safer sex, the law and sex (it’s legal to have sex over 16 in the UK) and why getting pissed and having sex is often not such a great idea.
Bodies
This is where you can learn how your sexual body parts work. Not just where babies come from but how to understand how you work so you can have more pleasure. Phew! Getting hot in here! So learn about the clitoris and female G spot (look out for the videos too), and how the penis and balls work.
Doing It, Not Doing It, Doing Stuff
Not everyone is having sex. Only 1/3 – 1/4 of young people have had sex before they are 16 and most of those that do are in relationships when they do. If you’re not sure if you are ready for sex then I have advice here about that. Doing ‘stuff’ is having sexy time with someone that doesn’t involve entry sex. It’s hot and it’s great if you don’t want to risk pregnancy or infection. If you do want to have entry sex, here’s how to do it
Relationships
Young people are always saying they want to learn more about relationships. So here it is! I’ve got a brief guide to relationships, which does also apply to hook ups or FWBs. How to tell someone you are into them, a guide to dating, dealing with common relationship issues with Dr Love and how to deal with heart break when relationships end.
Porn
Porn can be exciting, interesting, boring, scary, controversial, confusing, informative and sometimes all these things at once. I’ve got a series of posts to help you to learn more about porn without having to actually watch it. My brief guide to porn is very popular, you can also learn about the difference between real sex and porn sex . I’ve also made some porn videos that don’t actually have porn in.
About You
Feeling goooood is important. Sometimes things can bring us down which can be out of our control (our health or the way people see us because of our gender, race, sexuality or disability for example), but within that we can still do things that make us feel better: this is self esteem and you can get a self esteem pit stop here when you are feeling low.
Rights and Wrongs
I hope to have more in this section in the future but this is where I try to cover hot topics such as sex work , slut vs stud and why people say ‘gay’ when they mean ‘shit’
Parents and Carers
A new section with some practical tips on talking to teens about sex for parents.
Smartphone Downloads. If this is all a bit much and you want some basic information to have on your phone for when you need it, go here
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bishUK.com is brought to you by Bish Training (Justin Hancock) a freelance educator providing training, consultancy, project work and resources in the UK around sex and relationships. If you’re a practitioner perhaps you might want to buy some resources, training or project work. Perhaps you may want your own website for young people, or to use some content from this one for your own? For more click here or visit bishtraining.com
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