Deciding when to have sex with someone, or having sex for the first time, is a massive decision. Particularly when you are young.
So here is some stuff to think about. Remember, even if you’ve started having sex you can stop if you want to. And yes boys this post DOES apply to you too!
If you think I’m making all this up, I’m not! (well I am but I’d doing it for the right reason).
If you don’t believe me, read the research here:
Yeah! So take that!
Excellent ‘sex blogger’ Sex At Oxbridge wrote the following about her checklist for having first time sex, which I think is great.
She answers questions here, and writes her blog here
Do you think you need to be in a relationship to lose your virginity? Or if you want to have sex, should you just go for it with someone you find attractive?
What I did was set some standards and stuck to them. Mine were to be in a relationship and to be sober. Although I’ve enjoyed some drunk one night stands, it would have been a less than ideal way to lose my virginity I feel.
I saw a poster once that said “Sex can wait: masturbate” … probably better to do it yourself than to settle and be disappointed your first time.
Brook THT FPA
