About You

These posts are about you, how you can feel good about yourself, feel confident, plan, make good decisions and be the person you want to be. Look for more posts on this kind of stuff by clicking on a tag over in the side bar or by using the search bar.

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Should I Have Sex?

When the right time to have sex is is up to you (though you need to be over 16 for it to be legal). Here’s some stuff to think about so that you are less likely to regret it if you do do it.

Be At Your Best

We can’t always think positively about ourselves and we can’t always feel good. But sometimes people we tell ourselves we can’t do things. I made some vaguely positive adverts to put on your facebook walls (based on adverts). Check ’em out.

Self Esteem

Sometimes we can get stuck in a trap where if we feel bad, we think of ourselves badly and do things which make us feel worse. In my case I eat wotsits and ALL the biscuits. What happens when you feel crap?

Big up yourself, a self esteem pit stop

It’s not easy to think of ourselves positively (something something being British?). This is where I encourage you to think about your best bits and also some other bits you would like to work on.

Big Up Yourself: Being Positive About Yourself is not Arrogant

Saying No

We all get hassled into doing something we don’t want to do. Sometimes it’s good (getting up in the morning, going to work/school etc) but often it’s bad. If you get hassled into sex or sexting or looking at something you don’t want to here’s how to say no.

a guide to saying no bish


Telling People Something Big About You

How to tell big news about us, our relationships or our sexualities

Who To Talk To About Sex

Sometimes we really need to talk to someone about sex, relationships and us. But who and how?


QUILTBAG sounds like a very practical storage solution that people my age and above might like, but in the field of Sex Ed it stands for Queer/Questioning, Undecided, Intersex, Lesbian, Trans, Bisexual, Asexual and Gay. Learn more about all those things below



Guide to cisgender, transgender, genderqueer and The Velvet Underground.

Story of a Trans Man – A fantastic personal story about gender and identity

sex education, teen health, relationships, sexual health