My advice on why it’s not a good idea to choke someone during sex. Take care reading this. I don’t go into detail about injury or anything, but it might not be easy for you to read. Also, if you have experienced this non-consensually, or have been harmed doing this, you can get support from […]
Having trouble getting to sleep? Sleep is really important but a lot of the advice might not work for you. So here’s a resource for you to help you to understand how you get to sleep You Should Get Some Sleep I’m not into telling people what they should do, so I try to limit […]
BISH is aimed at everyone over 14, so there’s a good chance that you have been going through puberty for a bit. Puberty isn’t this thing that happens to us, we make puberty happen as much as it happens to us. Puberty is really different for everyone and that we should try to make a […]
As I’ve written about, hard ons can be random and unreliable. Sometimes they are annoying when they don’t happen (and sometimes annoying when they do). For the last 30 years to get erections when they want them a lot of people have taken dick pills, but do you need to? […]
I was asked ‘how do i know when I’ve had an orgasm’ recently by a young woman in an RSE lesson. She was saying that it’s obvious when men orgasm because they ejaculate, but how can she tell when she is having an orgasm? […]
A lot of you tell me that you use apps to track your menstrual cycles (periods, ovulation, and when you are most fertile). Great, but did you know they’re actually not that accurate? Especially the apps which just rely on you putting the dates when you get your period. This article explains why that is, […]
In this article we’ll learn about post nut clarity, why no-one really knows what it is, but also what it might be and what it might do. […]
How much do you know about penises? Try my funny and informative penis quiz and then have a click on the links below to find out more about penises and genitals generally. […]
An illustrated guide to breasts and chests. Here you’ll find out about how similar but also different they are and also how people have orgasms from them. […]
How our bodies might react during sex can be different for different people and at different times. Read more about why this is important to talk about. […]
Tl;dr, orgasm and ejaculation are different. Sometimes they happen at the same time, but that doesn’t mean they are the same thing. […]
Painful sex is something that a lot of readers contact me about. Usually from young women with vaginas in pain after trying penis in vagina sex. So that’s what this is about. I’ll tell you the causes of why sex can be painful which should give you some advice about having sex without pain. A […]
Evidence based tips on how to feel better about your body. Going beyond the basics of just ‘learning to love yourself’ …. […]
Your genitals are unique, as you can see in these drawings (by the most excellent Stuart F. Taylor). Warning, genital drawings ahead! […]
Although there is no bone in the human penis (I’m only doing Sex Ed for humans here I’m afraid) you can break your penis. […]
Lots of people struggle with having a small dick. It’s not a surprise, because we all taught that dick size is very important – particularly if you’re a man. However, for sex, dick size is really not important. […]
Here’s a video to help you feel more chill about your penis size. Contains no actual dick images. Just drawings. […]
A video guide to the clitoris and vagina – no actual pictures of either, just illustrations and terrible animations. […]
A lot of people worry about getting and keeping a hard on (aka erections). This is about what makes them happen, why they might disappear, erectile dysfunction and what might actually help. […]
Really trying to have orgasms? BISH advice is to forget about orgasms and try to enjoy sex instead. […]
Why penis in vagina sex can be a bit rubbish for many couples. […]
A guide to the vulva. Where the clitoris and G spot is. How the vagina works. Why and how people squirt. […]
A guide to the Penis, Average Dick Size, Hard Ons, Foreskin, the Bell End and Frenulum. […]
Wanting to have sex is ‘desire.’ Being turned on is ‘arousal.’ Sometimes they happen at the same time, sometimes not. Why? […]
Real life period stories from people about what their first periods were like. […]
Here are some tips to make your penis feel a bit bigger and why having it’s not a biggie having a biggie. […]
Lots of people worry about people trimming, shaving or waxing their pubes. No idea why … […]
So just what are the chances of getting pregnant? Here’s what other sex educators might not tell you about fertility. […]
When people say vagina, they probably mean vulva. […]
A guide to balls. How ejaculation works, testicular cancer, ball checks, prostate gland, G spot and ‘Pre cum’ […]
BISH is a guide to sex, love and you for everyone over 14. It’s for people who are (or are thinking about) having sex / relationships. It's for all genders and sexualities, people with disabilities, backgrounds, beliefs and values. It’s got a UK vibe so we say ‘snog’, ‘fancy’ and ‘shag’ a lot.
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