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Mutual Masturbation and Dry Humping – Why they are a very safe kind of sex

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Mutual Masturbation and Dry Humping – Why they are a very safe kind of sex

People get very worried about getting pregnant from masturbation and humping. Here is the Bish guide explaining why it is soooooo unlikely that someone can pregnant from this.

Mutual masturbation and dry humping have a very very very low risk of infection and a very very very very very very very very low risk of pregnancy. I have never heard of anyone getting pregnant from this.

I have never heard of anyone getting pregnant from dry humping or mutual masturbation

To keep these extremely low risks even lower:

  • Mutual masturbation you wipe, dry or wash your hands if you touch your partner’s genitals before touching your own.
  • With dry humping, make sure that you are both at least wearing your underwear to keep it super safe.

Lots of people have written to me via this page saying that they are worried about being pregnant from this. I have answered lots of them to say that it’s incredibly unlikely that they are pregnant. Sometimes periods are late, particularly teenagers. In fact late or early periods are very very common for teens.

However I can not tell you whether you are pregnant or not.

For more detail about how fertilisation and pregnancy starts (and how actually it can be quite difficult to get pregnant) go to my post here. Find out more about pre-cum here. Some of my best Ask Bish responses about this are here, here, here. Find out more about going to a sexual health service here 

I’ve also just made a video about it

Here’s a summary of some advice I’ve given to other people about this.

even if he touches some cum and fingers you it would be unlikely to be pregnant? Thks

Ok I’ll try and set everyone’s mind at rest about fingering and pregnancy. There is very very very little chance of getting pregnant from fingering. Here’s why.

If a couple had penis in vagina sex, and sperm is ejaculated into the vagina, it is still not likely to lead to pregnancy. Sex has to happen at a particular time in the menstrual cycle in order for pregnancy even to be possible. This is just before ovulation. Even if a couple has sex at this time it is not definite that a pregnancy will happen (something like a 33% chance).

It is possible for someone to have penis in vagina sex once, even if it’s their first time, and get pregnant. It happens, but that doesn’t mean it’s likely. It’s unlikely.

So the odds of getting pregnant from penis in vagina sex are low. The odds of getting pregnant from fingering or naked humping are much much much lower than that. So if you ask me whether you are pregnant or not, I can’t say no but I can say ‘I am almost certain that you are not pregnant.’

Ok? Got that? So please just chill and wait for your periods to come. (which aren’t always regular, particularly if you are stressed). mutual masturbation extremely safe

So if you are going to finger and masturbate each other be sensible. Wipe or wash your hands to prevent infections in between touching each other, but enjoy it.

If you plan on penis in vagina sex then use condoms and another form of contraception such as the pill.

Hope this helps

Bish

if boy is not wearing anything and girl is wearing chudi pant and underwear if he keeps his pines near girls virgen only for 10seconds any chance is there get pegnent

Hello, thanks for your question.

It really does not sound like the girl can be pregnant.

The best way to get a girl or woman pregnant is to put your penis all the way into the vagina and to have sex until you ejaculate, or cum, inside her. If you do not do this then there is a very very low chance of pregnancy.

If you want to have sex, but do not want to get a girl pregnant, or get an infection like HIV, then put a condom on your penis.

Thanks for your question!

Bish

Is it possible to become pregnant by grinding while wearing only underwear?

I think that there is a 0.00000000001% risk of pregnancy doing this, (ie pretty much 0% risk). If you want to reduce this risk even further then make sure that the male doesn’t cum over the female’s knickers and make sure that both people are wearing pants. Try not to get too hung up over it or you won’t enjoy it.

Perhaps it might be an idea to start thinking about contraception and condoms though? At some stage you may want to have entry sex (penis in vagina) and it’s best to be used to your condoms and contraception before you do so? dry humping extremely safe

Bish

 

How long does sperm stay alive? Is it possible to get pregnant from dry sex while being naked if he recently ejaculated from oral sex?

Sperm can live inside someone’s body for up to 5 – 7 days. Out in the open it dies pretty quickly. The chances of getting pregnant from what you describe are very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very,very, very low.

But you can pass infections on that way. Plus if you are getting this hot and heavy then you may both get carried away and have entry sex without you planning for it first. So take my advice. Go to a local young people’s clinic, or your GP to ask about contraception and condoms.

If you touch a guys penis with pre cum on it and then wait like 3 to five minutes and finger yourself would all the fluid be dry and there would be no risk of pregnancy?

You should know by now that I am very reluctant indeed to say that there would be no risk of pregnancy. However, like I said in previous answers, pre-cum is unlikely to contain sperm unless the penis holder hasn’t urinated since the previous ejaculation.

Sperm needs to be in wet and warm semen for it to survive. It may have dried after 3 to 5 minutes, it depends on the heat and dryness of your finger and the relative humidity where you live. It also depends on what you did with your finger, did it go all the way inside your vagina or just around the clit?

What I’m trying to say is that this case represents an extremely low risk of pregnancy. In the future maybe wipe your hands on his boxer shorts to make sure they are dry? Or keep tissues at hand?

My guy and I were messing around and I gave him a partial hand job and he didn’t ejaculate but I got some pre ejaculate on my fingers. It was about five minutes later I fingered myself pretty sure fingers were dry. Could I get pregnant?

Hi there, thanks for your question.

See my answer below about pre-cum and the Cowper’s Gland. It’s pretty unlikely that you can get pregnant from this but not impossible. However it is slightly more likely that you can get an infection.

My girlfriend and i were dry humping, she kept her underwear on but i had my penis out… i didn’t cum, and i don’t think i pre-came, but if i did in fact pre-cum, is there any chance she could get pregnant?

Hi, thanks for your question.

Pre-cum is fluid from the Cowper’s gland which is to change the pH balance of the urethra (pee pipe) in order for sperm to survive. The amount varies from penis to penis and isn’t always the same.

There is thought to be no sperm in pre-cum unless there is sperm left in the urethra from a previous ejaculation. If you urinated since the previous ejaculation then the sperm will have been washed away.

So, to answer your question, it’s highly unlikely that your girlfriend could have got pregnant.

But as I’ve said before. Things are getting pretty hot and heavy. Get some condoms and get used to putting them on in case you decide to have entry sex. When you are ready you will be ready to have entry sex straight away, so get prepared and take control of safety and contraception.

© Justin Hancock 2015

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  • sam says:

    hey bish

    my girlfriend’s period is late for about 4 days now. however, she was overseas for about 11 days prior to this and had fever while she was away. as of today, she is still quite sick with cough and flu.

    while she was away, we had an argument for like 3 days and she was very upset. however, before she went away, we had sessions of mutual masturbation and dry humping and there were occasions i would not be wearing anything and humping her with just my penis. she would be wearing her panties and a pantyliner though, although it happened once with just her panties without her pantyliner.

    could she be pregnant?

    • swetha says:

      me and my bf have dry humping as we have underwear on but he didnt ejaculated later he fingered me deeply but he didnt touched the penis and now i got my period 2 days before the date and less flow with cramping what does it meam im scared i dont want pregnant

      • bishtraining says:

        Sperm needs to be ejaculated into a vagina for a pregnancy to start. I can’t tell you whether someone is pregnant or not.

    • bishtraining says:

      Sperm needs to be ejaculated into a vagina for a pregnancy to start. I can’t tell you whether someone is pregnant or not. Remember that periods are often late.

  • leeroy says:

    is it possible/likely to get pregnant this way?

    me and my girlfriend usually dry hump with our underwears on, after which i would take her underwear off and then rub her clit or vagina region until she orgasms. i would be still be wearing my clothes. sometimes i wouldn’t be wearing my underwear and i would dry hump her and i noticed that it sometimes would cause her panties to be wet from my precum at some parts.

    after i rub her clitoris, she would put on her panties and proceed to give me a handjob until i come.

    her previous period was 8 days late and the current one is now 11 days late and it’s starting to worry me quite a bit. although her period came the latest at 16 days late last time without warning, it became regular again and now it’s all messed up. also, would it be risky if i masturbated the previous night and my underwear was soaked and then i proceed to dry hump her in the same underwear the next day? would it cause her to be pregnant?

    she fell sick for quite a few days this month and doesn’t have any pregnancy symptoms, although she had a little bit of cramping a few days before she had a very bad fever.

    pls help bish

    • bishtraining says:

      I can’t tell you whether she is pregnant or not, but I can tell you that it’s almost impossible to get pregnant that way and I’ve never heard of anyone getting pregnant in the way you describe.

      Periods are often not timely for young women. It’s quite normal for periods not to come when expected.

      Justin / Bish

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